Today we’re talking Awesome Lady Memoirs, which conveniently seem to be released all at once every couple of years for perfect binge listening. I wasn’t super familiar with either author’s work, written or spoken or filmed, before reading, which I think is often the best way to go about these things, but if you’re a fan I’m sure you’ve already listened to these anyway! If not, let me tell you why you totally should.
I’m Judging You: The Do-Better Manual, by Luvvie Ajayi
This book was sort of on my radar from various book sites, but when the author was interviewed on my new podcast love, Nerdette, I was like, okay, fine, I’ll read this. Well, listen to it, because memoirs narrated by their authors are my FAVORITE THING.
I’m Judging You starts out with a couple of chapters of delightful rants about all sorts of things, from mispronouncing names to Nigerian lateness to a very strange, extended bit about people who don’t know how to appropriately split the bill at restaurants, which is odd because she never points out that separate checks are totally a thing. Are they not totally a thing where she lives? Why would anyone go anywhere you can’t split a check? Man, I could rant about that for a whole chapter, probably.
But just when I thought I was going to listen to six hours of hilarious and overblown ranting about life’s trivialities, Ajayi brings in the big guns and devotes several chapters to racism and sexism and the combination thereof in which she pulls no punches. As a white woman, I felt alternately vindicated and accused, but the latter in the good way that encourages me to become a better person. I’m hoping there are dudes out there listening who feel the same way on the sexism front.
Even with the srs bsns, this was a pretty light listen, and with short bits, it was perfect for my walking commute to work and quick drives here and there. I will definitely be seeking out more from Ajayi in the future!
The Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo, by Amy Schumer
Schumer I was a little more familiar with, having seen her standup show with a friend when it came to town. I had… not a great time at the show, being not quite Schumer’s target audience as a chick who got married relatively young and who has stayed married ever since. Relationship woes? Wild college parties? Wild adult parties? I don’t have the right experience for those jokes.
But still, I could tell that Schumer was an interesting person and a fantastic storyteller, so I added her book to my list. And then, on a mindless day at work, I listened to nearly the entire thing while weeding and shelving and generally getting the library in order.
And man, it was perfect. Schumer checks off the usual memoir business of relaying crazy stories from childhood, from her family’s loss of riches to working with special-needs adults at a summer camp to committing grand theft with her younger sister and totally getting caught. But she also gets into the backstory of her life as a standup comedian, talking about how she stumbled into telling jokes for a living and how her terrible jokes became decent jokes and then pretty darn good jokes and what being a halfway famous person means in life. She also tells some stories that I recognized from her show but that were far more interesting when Schumer had more than ten seconds to really tell them.
Like Ajayi, Schumer also strays a bit from the funny to get serious about her father’s MS and the shooting that took place at one of her shows and to talk sexism and gun control, and with the same fervor. It’s sneaky, putting a lesson in a funny book, but I can see how well it works so I can’t argue.
Since these were both so excellent, I’m looking for more Awesome Ladies to read books to me about themselves. Any suggestions? (Besides Mara Wilson; I’ve got her book on hold already!)